Workaround for double-call of destructors (based on 3d56e026 and e1d9e578)

Workaround for double-call of destructors (based on 3d56e026 and e1d9e578)

Silently fixing this up is nothing short of irresponsible, hence the
elaborate detection and alert mechanism

Instead of just marking all my DESTROYs with the function, also add it to a
base class, thus capturing *everything* there is to find. Yes it will be a
tad slower. And yes it will have a massive benefit to any DBIC user happening
to be caught in an unfriendly app-space

(cherry-pick of d63c9e64)